Hi there! My name isย Charlotteย and Iโm Co-Founder & CEO ofย Equaltureย (a hiring software that leverages gamification to debias hiring for SMBs) and living in the most beautiful city in the world: Rotterdam. Being an entrepreneur for 4 years now and building my second company together with my twin sister, I get a lot of questions from other founders and people thinking about starting their own company.
Since I believe that every single founder experience can be helpful to other founders, I decided to translate these frequently asked questions into a blog series: Startup Flight.
In this very first blog: How I experience having a Co-Founder whoโs actually my twin sister and my tips when selecting your Co-Founder(s).
โโAnd what if it goes wrong?!โโ
That was the first thing my parents said in June 2016 when Fleur (my twin sister) and I told them that we were about to start a company together. And my friends said the same by the way. Or actually they mostly laughed (nervously) about it. Fair enough, I donโt blame them.
Starting a company with your family. With your twin sister! Thatโs a recipe for problems and family breakups, right? This couldnโt end well for both of us. At least thatโs what the people around us saw in their crystal ball. Well, in practice, it wasnโt that thrilling (fortunately).
In fact, we did pretty well! It actually worked. Not only in terms of collaboration, but also in terms of storytelling. We started our second company, Equalture (an HR SaaS platform) in 2018 at the age of 21. And what happened at that point is something we couldnโt predict.
Equalture turned into a media circus. Twin sisters, 21 years old, starting a tech company together with zero tech expertise (I didnโt even know the difference between an API and an IPA). So at least the story worked out. But even more important, the company worked out as well, because now โ 1.5 years later โ we built an incredible team (which will be doubled in 2020) and we managed to sell our product in 5 different countries.
So whatโs the recipe for surviving those first 1.5 years that many startups (90% actually) donโt survive? Well, having my twin sister as my Co-Founder helped for sure. These are the two reasons why (and also my two tips when searching for your Co-Founder(s)).
By the way, this is a picture of me (left) and Fleur (right). Typical twins, right:
Co-Founder Lesson #1: Be as different as possible.
Although Fleur and I are the typical twin sisters (same laugh, same voice, spending way too many hours together, et cetera), funnily enough we are completely different when it comes to work preferences and skills.
Where I love thinking about milestone B, Fleur loves to think about how we get from A to B. Where I love the more technical parts of Equalture (product development), Fleur loves the commercial part of the company. And where Iโm creative and a complete chaos, Fleur is the definition of structure and planning.
Starting your startup means that you and your Co-Founder (if you have one) should be able to do everything: Product, Sales, Finance, Marketing, Support, and so forth. My assumption is that no one masters all different skills, so always be aware of your skills/preferences and the ones of your (potential) Co-Founder. You donโt want to brainstorm about product development all day without anyone in the room caring about sales. So always try to be as different as possible to ensure a right combination of skills and interests.
Co-Founder Lesson #2: Act like you are twin sisters.
Alright, I know that sounds weird, so let me explain this.
Fleur and I love each other. And at the same time we sometimes canโt stand each other. Our team calls this The Firework Effect: We can sometimes disagree so badly on a topic that we switch from loving to fighting in a split second. The consequence is a 2-minute battlefield , followed by the transition from fighting to loving again. And right between those two transitions the coolest ideas are born.
Thereโs no shine without friction (we use this sentence in The Netherlands quite often, but I have no clue whether itโs a common saying outside NL, so hopefully you get me). Battlefield-level discussions are sometimes necessary to come up with innovative ideas. So you should feel comfortable enough to create or experience these kinds of situations with your Co-Founder(s). And I donโt only feel comfortable doing this to Fleur. Luckily enough we got Jaap (our amazing third Co-Founder and CTO) on board last year, who also feels like a brother to me in heavy discussions. And thatโs perfect, because (1) we never stay angry too long and (2) we always like each other at the end of the day.
So sorry mom and dad, sorry friends, you were all wrong (fortunately). Itโs amazing to build a company together with my twin sister and my โworking-brotherโ Jaap. And maybe even more important: It works. Just because we are completely different and act like twin sisters. For me thatโs the recipe for Co-Founder success.
Cheers, Charlotte